25/f/Iowa, soon-to-be divorced, full-time employee and student, TAKEN by a super sexy certified NANBF bodybuilder… I have two little tornadoes that call me “mom”, proud of our troops, makeup/product junkie, Team Beachbody Coach & cultured country girl
This describes me, a Virgo, perfectly: Dominant in relationships. Someone loves them right now. Always wants the last word.. Caring. Smart. Loud. Loyal. Easy to talk to. Everything you ever wanted. Easy to please. A pushover. Loves to gamble and take chances. Needs to have the last say in everything.. They think they know everything and usually do. Respectful to others but you will quickly lose their respect if you do something untrustworthy towards them and never regain respect. They do not forgive and never forget. The one and only.
You should follow my best friend…http://psychosprinkles.tumblr.com
You should also follow my best guy friend….http://pcfixgeek.tumblr.com/
Former state finalist for Miss Iowa-USA and Miss Teen Iowa-USA. Brown hair, blue eyes, 5’10”
I’m part of a group of people in the Cedar Valley who spot storms/tornadoes for the surrounding communities. I love when I get the call to go out and storm chase:) <3
What is your name? You can call me Kate, or Kathy. Katherine if you’re mad at me.
Why did you leave your husband? He was both physically and verbally abusive.
How long have you and Kirk been dating? Since December 2011. So, not very long. I am so blessed to have him in my life, though. He makes me want to be a better person.
Was your husband a Marine? Heavens, no. I reblog a lot of military/Marine stuff because my best friend is married to a Marine. I’ve gone to the ball and it was a blast. A lot of the people I associate with are military/former military.
Have you always lived in Iowa? No. I was born in Minnesota, lived in Canada for a wee bit, moved to Oregon, and came here 10 years ago.
How did you almost die in April? I overdosed on 32 prescription sleeping pills.
Why do you have PTSD? I was abused until I moved the summer going into 5th grade, and I was physically and verbally abused by my husband for seven years.
Are you still depressed? Do you still cut? No, and no. Sure, I get sad once in a while. Everyone does. I’m a single mom. It’s tough as hell. You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have.
I see a lot of thinspiration things on your blog. Are you anorexic/bulimic? Do I LOOK anorexic/bulimic? lol. I love food. To be honest though, I don’t think ana/mia ever leaves anyone. I think it goes dormant and resurfaces every so often. At least that’s been my experience. It’s dormant right now.
Your weight looks like it’s fluctuated a lot in your pictures. umm. Yeah. I’ve had two kids. In the last year and a half, I’ve lost 100 lbs.
Did you go to college? I am still a college student. I have my Associate’s in Business Management, and my Bachelor’s in Corporate Finance. I am an MBA student.


My children are my w o r l d
I’m strange and often misjudged and usually never given a chance before dismissed. I have always been that weird pretty girl, the girl who has always been out of step. I choose to use the misfortunes that have happened in my life and want to help others. I over-analyze EVERYTHING. Some of my closest friends in life I have never met in person. I am incredibly intuitive. I feel I can bring the best out in people. I have extreme compassion and empathy.



















